When was the last time you bought yourself flowers? For most of my early adult life, I had this really random belief that flowers were supposed to be given. In my mind they were a gift. I remember thinking that I wished a boyfriend would buy me flowers and then my mind would wander off about why he didn’t. . . What never even dawned on me at that time was that I could buy my own flowers! I know this seems simple but it’s a perfect example of where a belief was limiting my ability to act. A belief that I now laugh at. It’s so ridiculous! Of course I deserve flowers if I want them. And I don’t have to wait for someone to give me a gift that I can easily give myself. . . Today I invite you to look at something you don’t think you can receive or have. What is the belief that underlies that limitation? And do you want to still live with that belief? . . Maybe you think you can get a better job. Maybe you don’t think you can afford a vacation. Maybe you don’t think it’s ok to have me time. Whatever it is that is keeping you from what you would really love to do, investigate and unpack that belief. . . You are allowed to grow and expand. You are allowed to change your mind. You are allowed to decide which beliefs work for you and which ones don’t. . . Give yourself permission to change. You are totally worth it my love! 💕
If you let yourself be successful, you will be successful. ✨ The key word here? LET. 🔑 As the former President of the Get-in-Your-Own-Way Club, I’ll be the first to say that giving myself permission to say YES to myself has been a major challenge. 🙋♀️ Giving myself permission to want a certain life. To want a certain income. To want a certain career. Permission to let go of mistakes. To let go of regret. To simply be myself! 🙌 At the end of the day, the only person you need permission from is YOU. 👆 Give yourself permission to create the amazing life you want and are meant to live.
Too many of us sell ourselves short... Never really giving life all we can... Never really thinking big... #failing to live. "Our #deepest#fear is not that we are inadequate... our deepest fear is that we are #powerful beyond measure. It is our #light, not our #darkness that most #frightens us. You playing #small does not serve the world. There is nothing #enlightening about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were all meant to shine as #children do. It's not just in some of us, it's in all of us. And as we let our own light #shine, we unconsciously give other people #permission to so the same. Our presence automatically #liberates others."
・・・ You’re allowed to leave any story you don’t find yourself in. You’re allowed to leave any story you don’t love yourself in. : You’re allowed to leave a city that has dimmed your light instead of making you shine brighter, you’re allowed to pack all your bags and start over somewhere else and you’re allowed to redefine the meaning of your life. : You’re allowed to quit the job you hate even if the world tells you not to and you’re allowed to search for something that makes you look forward to tomorrow and to the rest of your life. : You’re allowed to leave someone you love if they’re treating you poorly, you’re allowed to put yourself first if you’re settling and you’re allowed to walk away when you’ve tried over and over again but nothing has changed. : You’re allowed to let toxic friends go, you’re allowed to surround yourself with love, and people who encourage and nurture you. You’re allowed to pick the kind of energy you need in your life. : You’re allowed to forgive yourself for your biggest and smallest mistakes and you’re allowed to be kind to yourself, you’re allowed to look in the mirror and actually like the person you see. : You’re allowed to set yourself free from your own expectations. : We sometimes look at leaving as a bad thing or associate it with giving up or quitting, but sometimes leaving is the best thing you can do for yourself. : Leaving allows you to change directions, to start over, to rediscover yourself and the world. Leaving sometimes saves you from staying stuck in the wrong place with the wrong people. : Leaving opens a new door for change, growth, opportunities and redemption. : You always have the choice to leave until you find where you belong and what makes you happy. : You’re even allowed to leave the old you behind and reinvent yourself. : Author: Rania Naim @ranianaim : #repost @wildwomansisterhoodofficial with @ranianaim . Thank you for these amazing words... .
Breakdown those heart walls We are now being called to re-feel and work through our old programming for transmutation. We play out our childhood traumas in relationships until they are healed and released. When we were young, we created a subconscious belief that we were responsible for resolving family issues and would take this pain into our heart. This created a inauthentic version of ourselves. This version disconnects us from our true feelings deep inside. It is hidden under the layers of what we thought everyone else wanted us to be. Well now it's time to set yourself free. To do this, you need to be willing to review childhood trauma. Did you feel mistreated? Abandoned? Neglected? Ignored? What role did you play as a child? The fixer? The yes person? Were you not allowed to speak your mind? When we remember how we felt in our childhood, we can see how we became detached from our real soul self. You are not your pain. You are not what you have experienced. You are still a perfect child of The Universe. Now here comes the fun or perhaps thrilling part! It's Opposite Day! If you were a yes person as a child, say no to someone today. Even if you are at work. You can say it in jest to practice or even better, you can mean it. Do people always come to you to fix their problems? Talk about your own. Flip the energy and see how it makes you feel. Owning your power is sooooo additive! The more you practice the opposite of what you normally do, the more you are able to find the balance in who you really are and then you can take it from there. You're soul has a clearer channel to get to you and be heard when we are in a state of being playful. Hidden under all those subconscious layers of what other wanted you to be is the real version of you. Release the layers now. See yourself as who you really are again. Reclaim your rightful power in yourself. 🌸 Image from the StarChild Tarot by Danielle Noel 🌸 #subconscious#layers#remove